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Day 40: the mom’s ok & airport security, or lack thereof

Katie and I are back in San Francisco, back home.  My mom, too, is back home at her apartment in New Jersey.  She was discharged from the hospital this morning.  She came home, showered, and ate some porridge.  All in all, she’s doing very well, considering that a section of her intestine was removed from her body less than a week ago.

Here are a few pictures to back up my encouraging words.  This first one was taken when we visited her yesterday, and the one on the right is from this morning, just before we took her home:

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We woke up at around 9 AM or so New York time and our flight arrived into SFO at around 9 PM or so San Francisco time, so it’s been a rather long day.  I managed to finish Watchmen on the plane.  I also won a contest with my Pokemon.  He bedazzled the judge Dexter with his acting skills.

I’m not an airport security expert either, but I am one of those (many?) people that think the entire routine when entering the gate area at US airports is mainly theatrics.  The shoes, the liquids – it all seems to be there to reinforce the notion that we’re being secured against the types of attacks that have been identified in the past.  I suppose it does prevent me from using large amounts of liquids or my shoes as potential weapons, but that seems like fixing a potentially leaky dam by plugging two specific small holes.

Not only that, these procedures does more to punish the innocent than the guilty.  Security lines now take longer to process for all travelers because of the time it takes for everyone to take off and put on their shoes; additionally, the liquids policy makes it much more inconvenient for any legitimate traveler to bring their usual makeup or personal care items.

Lastly, in the big picture view of things, it’s hard to imagine that these policies will stop determined terrorists from achieving their objectives; that’s what frightens me most.  Before September 11, it was somewhat inconceivable that less than a dozen men could commandeer multiple planes with their objective being to crash the planes into large structures.  This wasn’t because plane hijacking was unheard of; it was because previous hijackings hadn’t been kamikaze missions.

Terrorists aren’t necessarily smarter than our security teams are, but they have the advantage because they can afford to react.  Our government is in a tough spot because they need to be able to outthink and predict events and actions that haven’t yet happened.  The security policies that I see at our airports don’t convince me.  Perhaps there’s more than meets the eye, but it feels more like theater than actual protection to me.

Day 38: topics of conversation that chinese people find not at all uncomfortable

  • Your weight, especially how you look like you’ve gained some since the last time they’ve seen you
  • How much you spent on purchasing your house/plane tickets/purse
  • The small ways in which their child is not living up to their potential
  • The large and specific ways in which their child is doing things much better and more important that you could ever hope to
  • Your future, especially when you plan to have children
  • How hungry you must be, and how you need to eat more, despite how much weight you seem to have gained
  • Paying a restaurant bill, and how there’s no way they’d let you pay for this meal
  • How much money you make, and certain jobs they’ve heard about where you could make more

We’re off to visit my mom soon. She was doing quite well yesterday, although she seems a bit overzealous in terms of getting off any medical assistance and getting back to normal. She probably won’t be able to return to normal work for a few weeks, even after getting out of the hospital, but she’s such a trooper that I wouldn’t be surprised if she were already worrying about the things she needs to do when she gets back into the office.

We’ll probably grab some lunch on this side of the bridge before we head over. Does anyone have specific NY places we should try to eat at before we leave town?

We’ve got another show tonight that my mom booked for us (a preview of an off-Broadway Hamlet, I believe), so it looks like it’ll be a pretty full day. The big win today would be if my mom can finally get some solid food. She’s been keeping down her jello and chicken broth, so fingers crossed!

Day 37: ipods and floppy pizza

Mom update: she’s sitting up, walking, and doing everything she’s supposed to be able to do the day after her operation. Things are looking like they are solidly on progress for her recovery.

We had a slight mishap where the toilet backed up late last night and I didn’t manage to clear it until tonight after we got home. Is any simple event more nerve-wracking then clogging a toilet while visiting someone else’s place? It also meant Katie and I both kind of had to hold it for extended periods of time. No worries! We persevered.

I noticed on the subway that while not everyone had an iPod, almost all people that had any sort of electronic music device had an iPod of some sort. How did Apple do that? How did they manage to corner a market which had relatively strong competition with players that did not necessarily have the most features or the cheapest prices? How did they manage to generate enormous waves of positive word-of-mouth, a large youth hipness quotient, and turn the public’s attention to style over power?

It’s incredible that with their Mini line, they’re no longer even simply advertising them as MP3 players that you should buy. They’re advertising them as the second (or third?) iPod that you need, to complete your collection and complement your outdoor activities when you want something smaller than your shiny and slick iPod Touch but something a bit more controllable than your oh-so-tiny iPod Shuffle. Oh, and they come in so many cute colors!

How did Apple control all our minds so effectively? And where can I learn to do that?

We also saw Mike Yin briefly tonight. Although he had tickets to a UCB show, we managed to see his place, eat some floppy pizza, and watch this week’s episode of Lost. It was fun and comfortable, even if the pizza was a bit too floppy for Katie’s liking.

It snowed this morning. We hadn’t seen snow since we left Pittsburgh. It was nice, while it lasted. The sun came out soon after, and melted it.

OK, I really should go to the bathroom now. Delaying any longer may simply be unsafe.

Day 36: in the hospital

Hospitals are funny places. People are different here. There’s a funny old man here wishing everyone luck as he gets wheeled off to surgery. My mom is with Katie, changing into her gown.

There was also someone in the waiting room wearing a Steelers jacket. That made me smile a bit.

I’ll update later, after everything is OK again.

UPDATE: Everything is great! My mom’s operation went perfectly and her friendly doctor said he did everything right!
Then we saw The 39 Steps on Broadway – my mom had gotten us tickets so we’d have stuff to do while in town – and it was funny!
Now we have to eat some cake before my mom gets out of the hospital. It is of the utmost importance. UTMOST!

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