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Day 116: home ownership

This weekend was relievingly work-free, so Katie and I spent a good portion of time yesterday tending our front and side yards.

Today, we both helped make a delicious meatloaf dinner.

Overall, it feels really good to be homeowners. Our roof’s insulation is fantastic – we have not felt any of this year’s hot days while inside our house.

And it’s great to know that the money that leaves our bank account each month goes toward something we own, instead of making money for a faceless landlord or rental agency. Even I’d mortgage rates have fallen since we locked down our loan.

Also, it’s fantastic to be able to accidentally create a hole in your wall and have it be no big deal.

I need to cut my fingernails. Like my hair, I never cut them with any regular schedule. I just wait until they’re an inconvenient length and the cut them out of spite. I need to work on that.

Day 26: self-evaluation

I’m doing my annual self-evaluation for work today and it got me thinking about doing an overall self-evaluation.

So, here it is.  My self-evaluation for life.

Over the past year, I have continued to grow and learn as a human being while consistently delivering and executing on the tasks – both large and small – that have been assigned to me.  I have been the go-to guy when it comes to cleaning the cats’ litter box and successfully taken out the garbage week after week, sometimes even in the rain.

My biggest achievement this past year was, together with my wife, purchasing a house in October.  True – we had first undertaken this difficult task in the beginning of last year, but our final selection was a choice that to make both financial and emotional sense.  While I admit that we suffered a setback with the short sale earlier in the year, we could not be happier with the end result.

Likewise, in these harder financial times and especially with the added pressure of a mortgage, I have had to keep a firm eye on our bottom line.  As acting CFO of this household, I can confidently say that even with our property purchase, we still managed to make a small profit.  Our targets for next year may not be as aggressive, but I feel confident that we will continue to meet and even exceed our expectations in the years to come.

There is, as always, room for improvement.  I need to be a better listener, in two ways.  Sometimes, I can be so focused on certain tasks or activities that I tune other people out or only half-hear what they are saying.  I instead need to learn to actively multi-task or turn my undivided attention away from my current task (which can usually wait) and to the person speaking.  In addition, I need to actually act on certain requirements that would make our household cleaner and better overall.

Not tossing clothing on the floor, helping to clean up food and dishes, and clearly stating when I will be playing video games are all things that I intend to improve in the upcoming year.  Despite these small flaws, I believe that I continue to be a valuable asset and would love the time and patience to emerge as a future leader of this household.

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