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Day 44: kids are awesome

It doesn’t feel like a Friday today.  Maybe it’s because I started work on Tuesday this week.  Maybe it’s because the excitement of the draft tonight has given me an overabundance of blood in my brain.  Or a dearth?

My mom called me today.  She’s still in a bit of pain, but she’s well loved by her friends, who continue to come over and cook her an overabundance of food.  She has a follow-up appointment on Monday where I predict the doctor will tell her nothing but good news.

She also said that she was proud of me and really happy that I had turned out the way I had.  Well, not in so many words.  It was really nice.  I’ve always lived, as most Chinese children do, in a somewhat constant state of wondering whether I’ve disappointed my parents.  While certainly rather harrowing at times, I’m sure it’s also made me stronger in many ways.

Either way, it’s nice to hear something so direct and confidence-boosting.

What a task it is – rearing a child.  Several of my co-workers have kids or are about to have kids or just had a kid.  It’s really quite amazing.  Each of us was once a baby, our entire lives consisting of our parents and bodily functions.  And now?  Now, we’re working members of society, living on our own (or with some other grown baby that we really like), blogging independent thoughts, and considering the latest stem cell research announcement.

That’s awesome.  Isn’t it?

So that’s why I want to have children (eventually).  Because there’s nothing better or more powerful I could do with my life.

Today, however, the best and most powerful thing I can do is pick a perfect baseball team.

Day 31: distracted

Katie got a haircut yesterday and I didn’t say anything about it until today, and only after she brought it up.  I’m pretty sure I noticed it several times, but it just didn’t click in my head.  I’m sure this costs me a few Good Husband points.

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Both of us are flying out to New York/New Jersey next Wednesday evening to be with my mom, who’s going in for a (hopefully routine) operation on Thursday.  I won’t go into details here, but if you want to send any prayers or happy thoughts her way, I’d appreciate it.

I’m at work, clearing out some bugs and looking for new ones, but my thoughts are elsewhere.

On my mom, on Katie’s haircut, on a certain doorknob we have at home, on my Xbox’s drive that seems to stop working once a week or so, on the fact that our kitty will chew through plastic to eat our CostCo muffins.

I’m trying to start work on a script for a short YouTube series that I can film easily, but it’s harder than it seems.  I need to sketch out an overall summary of it before I just start writing.  But, I think it’ll be great when I’m done with it.

In celebration of pi day, EA provided us with some pies.  It’s the little things that count.

I think I want some mac and cheese later today.

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