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Day 118: angry dentistry

I was talking with some co-workers today about dentists and oral hygiene in general. A few of them had tooth troubles and were planning on visiting a dentist soon, and neither was particularly happy about it.

I’ve never had a fear of dentists (as some people seem to), but it’s not really ever been something I look forward to. We started discussing why nobody really likes to go to the dentist and it seems that everyone’s typical dental experience is one that is with a somewhat disgruntled or angry hygienist or dentist. I remember a particularly mean dental assistant when I was in middle school that flossed my teeth until they hurt and said it was my fault that it hurt because I didn’t floss enough.

Everyone appears to have one of those experiences. So, the question became: why do so many dental people appear to be so angry? I think it’s primarily because dental professionals live in a bit of a bubble. They live in the “oral hygiene is super important” bubble. It must be a bit like being a mathematical or musical genius where everyone else in the world thinks your work is interesting but a bit crazy.

So it must get to dental people. Why does no one else care about flossing? Why do these stupid people come in every year with more easily preventable cavities? And so, they start becoming belligerent. Who wouldn’t?

Day 47: fear of the uncommon yet mundane

Today, I read the following headline on my news feed:

Oregon police say man’s sneezing fit caused him to lose control of car, crash into home

This is scary.  This is scary because it can happen to any of us.  We all sneeze.  Most of us drive.  By simple statistics, we will sneeze while driving probably at least, like, a thousand times in our life.

It’s just another thing to add onto the list of news stories that inspire fear, not due to the fantastical or ghastly nature of them, but because they could happen to any of us.

Even after you filter out all the stories about things we do everyday like drive, fly, and live in areas with natural disasters, there are still those uncommon stories about the most mundane activities leading to our downfall.

It’s why I always feel unjustifiably nervous when walking by a track and field event.  That’s where javelins get thrown into people’s heads.  It’s why I always make sure that when using a hair dryer or toaster, there are no pools or puddles of water nearby.  That’s how people get electrocuted.

Sure, it doesn’t happen all the time.  That’s what makes it scarier!  I can deal with the fact that fender benders and muggings and petty theft of unsecured valuables happen.

But once, a guy watching Lost had his house hit by a meteor.  I watch LOST.  Thus, this could happen to me.

I clearly don’t know how my mind works, but I think it is correct to make these connections.  I’m sure it has something to do with how I was good at chess when I was younger.

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