Katie & Scott & Simon & Cecily.

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I posted an entry each day during my 26th year of life.

Day 345: this baby is real

Katie and I went to the baby doctor today. It was just another appointment in a long line of baby doctor visits, but today marks six weeks until the due date of our baby (and only three weeks until the baby is full term)!

And I know that the baby is real. I’ve seen it in grainy black and white, I’ve felt it move inside of Katie’s belly (which is both awesome and extremely weird), and I’ve seen the effects on Katie’s energy levels.

But somehow, it never really hit me that March 5 was so soon. That I could be an official daddy in a month if the baby comes a bit early. Until today. Somehow, it suddenly became clear just how close we are to actually having this baby.

Where did those 8 months go? I’ve been so excited to see and hold and cuddle this baby, but now that we’re so close, it’s hard not to get nervous. Will I be a good father? Will I know what to do? Will I be able to raise my son to be the best he can be? What’s going to happen to our lives?

I’ve never been so happy or so scared.

Day 344: credit card savings

I recently signed up for a new credit card.  While our primary credit card will remain the American Express Blue Cash card, which has served us well in the past, I’m moving our secondary card from the Citi World Dividend Mastercard to the Citi Forward Visa.

This relates to my philosophy of spending money, which is to save on every dollar I spend.  If I can charge it onto the American Express, I know I’m getting at least 1.5 cents back (and sometimes, even 5 cents).  Before, charging it on the Mastercard would net 1 cent back (and sometimes 2), but that always felt a bit low to me.  Additionally, the Mastercard required an accumulation of $50 in cash back before they would cut you a check.

The Citi Forward card is much more appealing.  It gives 5 points per dollar spent at restaurants and movie theaters (and 1 point on everything else), plus a bonus 100 points per billing cycle if we don’t pay late (which we never do).  While the points are not quite as good as cash back (the trade ratio is a bit lower for points, about 71 cents per 100 points for a statement credit, with slightly better ratios for a mortgage payment or certain gift cards), the extra points that accumulate are much more advantageous, especially for a backup credit card.  It still works out to about 3.5 cents “cash” back per dollar spent at any restaurant.

Of course, if I really wanted to maximize my cash back when spending, I would use different credit cards for every different type of transaction (i.e. a specific gas credit card, a specific grocery credit card, a specific restaurant credit card, and a specific airline credit card).  But there are just certain practical limitations and a certain level of ease of use that you have to accept in your life.

Maybe when I’m older.  Maybe then, I’ll be comfortable doing hours of research so that I can go into CVS with a wallet full of coupons and buy toilet paper for a quarter.  Until then, this two credit card system has worked and it does make me feel better knowing that, unless I pay cash, I’m never quite spending as much as the receipt says.

Day 343: current events

Let me put aside the earthquake in Haiti and the Massachusetts special election and its effects on the health care reform bill, and let’s talk turkey.

Avatar: what is up with this movie making gajillions of dollars? I saw Avatar (once) and I enjoyed it. I thought the world was pretty and plot was simple enough to follow. I liked them sticking their ponytails into things and how they were all big and blue. But, man, this thing has a life of its own.

Which begs a question like: is Avatar our generation’s Star Wars? Is it the movie that’s going to be the benchmark for an entire lifetime of franchises? Somehow, this movie managed to hit that piece of the market that manages to play well to heavy sci-fi fans and play decently to everyone else in the world. Most hardcore sci-fi movies get shunned by mainstream audiences, while most sci-fi movies that appeal to mainstream audiences don’t find a large enough hardcore following.

Will we be seeing Avatar sequels, prequels, book series, graphic novels, Christmas specials, action figures, bedsheets, Lego sets, and conventions for the next half century? Will ThinkGeek jokingly put up a USB orange Pandora shrinking plant a few years from now and then be forced to make it due to insane popularity and demand? Is this the world we now live in?

Also, wow is NBC and Leno getting hammered right now in the public eye. Everyone I know who has any kind of opinion on this clustercuss is on Conan’s side and I can’t imagine that anyone else will come out of this smelling good. I’ve rarely watched The Tonight Show (or any late night television for that matter, except for a short period of time in high school when I watched Letterman regularly), but it’s hard to resist tuning in for Conan’s final few days when most of what he’s been doing is glibly poking fun at NBC all night long.

I don’t dislike the network’s programming in general, but this Tonight Show incident is nothing short of a publicity debacle (even if Tonight Show ratings are up right now) and it’s essentially a public confession that all the confidence they had in The Jay Leno Show saving them money in the 10 o’clock slot was just a lot of hubris.

Day 342: mad hatting

I don’t have much to say today, after yesterday’s heavy racism post.  We haven’t had any baby appointments recently, nothing terribly exciting happened at work today, and I spent most of the evening watching a virtual Shanghai blow up with Hunter.

So…here’s a black and white picture of me with my new budget top hat.

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