{"id":714,"date":"2010-01-18T23:36:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-19T07:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scott-n-katie.com\/blog\/?p=714"},"modified":"2010-01-18T23:36:00","modified_gmt":"2010-01-19T07:36:00","slug":"day-341-racism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.scott-n-katie.com\/blog\/?p=714","title":{"rendered":"Day 341: racism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It being MLK day and all, I thought it might be an appropriate time to talk about racism.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody wants to be a racist \u2013 at least, nobody that I know.&#160; I certainly don\u2019t.&#160; But I suppose it depends on how you grow up and the environment you were raised in.<\/p>\n<p>And despite the best intentions of my parents and growing up and learning in diverse places of education, I\u2019m afraid that I <em>am<\/em> a bit of a racist.&#160; While I don\u2019t do things like shout slurs at people on the streets or become friends with people based on their skin, there\u2019s something ingrained in my subconscious that causes me to notice skin tone and have it affect my judgment of that person\u2019s character.<\/p>\n<p>I think there are a lot of influences to this.&#160; People of certain races I\u2019ve known in the past and the portrayal of different races in the media are perhaps the two major factors.&#160; I treat people differently based on their personalities; I wouldn\u2019t tell the same story the same way to two different people if I know ahead of time that they\u2019ll have opposite reactions.&#160; Does this apply more so if the people are of different races?&#160; It\u2019s hard to tell for sure, but I may.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, if I meet someone for the first time, I am fairly certain that I do a bit of racial profiling somewhere in my brain.&#160; It\u2019s not something as negative as: well, this guy\u2019s obviously a thug.&#160; But I probably do have certain expectations, like an Asian person being logical, that I can attribute to nothing but their race.<\/p>\n<p>What can I do to combat that?&#160; To treat each person as nothing but an individual and bring no racial assumptions or expectations to the table?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s because my parents and I (and I expect, almost <em>all<\/em> families) never overtly talked about race when I was young.&#160; Sure, there were vague affirmations, like \u201ceveryone is equal.\u201d&#160; But this <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newsweek.com\/id\/214989\" target=\"_blank\">book excerpt in Newsweek<\/a> (from the Freakonomics-esque book NutureShock) got me thinking.&#160; Let\u2019s put aside the exact study and sample size for now and just focus on what questions come from this.<\/p>\n<p>Babies are able to differentiate skin color before we can really even communicate to them effectively about what race is.&#160; And children tend to group themselves into homogenous groups; as a child, I\u2019m more likely to seek those peers that look like me.&#160; So do we need to actively enforce the idea in children\u2019s heads that different-looking people are just as deserving of friendship and respect?&#160; Is it a comfort zone that we have to break out of to talk directly and specifically to our children about race (or even specific races of their classmates) or would they learn it on their own if not for our subtle racist cues that we may unknowingly present?<\/p>\n<p>And if I have certain connotations (be they negative or positive) with certain races already, how do I prevent those from appearing in my behavior around my child?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It being MLK day and all, I thought it might be an appropriate time to talk about racism. Nobody wants to be a racist \u2013 at least, nobody that I know.&#160; I certainly don\u2019t.&#160; But I suppose it depends on how you grow up and the environment you were raised in. 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